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5 Tips For Surviving That First Post Labor Poo

We've talked about marriage and sex, breastfeeding and hemorrhoids, mornings and morning sickness. But the thing readers bring up most is that first post-labor poo. Here are five honest tips.

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Top Ten Toys of All Time

Growing up as an 80s and 90s kid meant My Little Ponies and Polly Pockets — but the best toys, Kate argues, are the simplest ones: sticks, blankets, and cardboard boxes.

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Church.

When people ask why we're not going to church, I say it's too far and Austin has to study. But even when we lived five minutes away, we slept in and made blueberry pancakes.

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Q&A On Traditional Marriage With Zoe Dawn

A conversation with Kate's sister-in-law Zoe about traditional marriage that sparked a lively, sometimes heated, discussion in the comments section.

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Is Sex Worth The Wait?

Kate lost her virginity at 19 and never regretted it — despite being raised in a school system that emphasized abstinence to the point of excess. A frank look at waiting.

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Top Ten Tuesday Series

A recurring series covering toys, parenting tips, and product recommendations — always with Kate's signature blend of humor and honesty.

Recent Posts
  1. Church.

  2. Q&A On Traditional Marriage With Zoe Dawn

  3. Is Sex Worth The Wait?

  4. 5 Tips For Surviving That First Post Labor Poo

  5. Top Ten Toys of All Time