Due to the recent tragedy that took place last week and the events surrounding it, I’ve been thinking a lot about family. Of course this is all very natural; whenever we experience loss, we cling even harder to what we have. These past few nights I can’t fall asleep without giving Austin a long stare in the dark while he falls asleep, willing him to live until he’s 105 and thanking God he’s still here.
It’s easy to forget how fragile we are. Most of the time we’re just barreling through life at mach speed, trying to get things done, trying to make it to the next day. Death interrupts that race, bringing us to a standstill, reminding us what’s most important.
Family is not perfect. In fact, family can be very painful, confusing, selfish, and haphazard. We saw that this past week and we’ll see it again. Yet despite these inherent flaws, the connectedness is steadfast and for that I am thankful. I forget that this circle of brothers, sisters, moms, dads, cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents is a privilege. Today I lift them up.
Hey the video won’t play…says it’s private.
This is a great post. A good reminder to slow down and savor the relationships that mean most to us.
Yes and this is exactly why you better come to the party in VA
hmm, is there a password we need to view this?
I like your thoughts
Sorry about that folks. Video now enabled.
This is wonderful, cried the whole way through. Can I get a copy. Kate this is precious. love you, grams
Excellent! Loved that!
Oh that was good!
Lovely, Kate.
And there are some fabulous pictures of Kenton in there! They ought to be framed.
Thanks, Kate. You said it so well. I’d love to have a copy of this.
that is such a beautiful video kate.
I didn’t know I had any more tears in me. Thanks.
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